Unfortunately I did try the 'one touch root' It took 5 hours to get it done, and since the language was not my own (LOL), Somewhere along the line I ended up with a Sprint OS on a Verizon phone. At that point I did a restore (since I did a back-up before the failed root-yay me!) and essentially got my phone back. The memory problem has (temporarily I am sure..) gone away and though I lost the data in a program I used everyday, I am hoping that I can deal with it until I can get a new phone. I did find out that I can upgrade early, but will lose a credit if I do it before December... Thanks for the replies, I really appreciate them, but this newbie will not try to root again. I just didn't have good luck, and am turned off by the time that it took!

Thanks again for the replies and I am still up for suggestions...