I don't think verizon forgot about the eris, i think they broke up with it and got with the incredible. thats their new baby and put all their effort in that. we will never see an update unless you figure out how to root to the 2.2. it would be nice to have the flash player though.
how to root 2.2? shat i have a rooted 2.2 rom on my phone right now. root permissions on a rom is one of the easiest things in the world.
we already have one 2.2 rom, i got one of my own working- trashed it cuz it wasnt stable enough though-but the point is that the eris already has 2.2
flash is a no-no though. probably not ever going to have it. flash 10.1 plugin isnt for our processor.